If you are in a bad mood, do you prefer to be left alone or have someone to cheer you up?
I’m very rarely in what I consider a bad mood (though Ailsa may disagree with that) 😉
I’d say Ailsa has never seen me in what I consider a really bad mood, though she has certainly had some experiences of the lesser versions over the last 25 years.
Like Shar and OM, the specifics of the situation matter. Sometimes I just need to be left alone to work through something, sometimes help is useful.